By Jennifer Klitzke

Riding at the MN Horse Expo last year inspired a story I titled “Facing Fear.” This year’s return to the Expo inspired “The Sequel.” Horses have a way of catching me off guard. I think God uses this to keep me humble and remind me to draw my strength from Him.

Gift of Freedom (Makana) and I arrived early Thursday morning to familiarize ourselves with the Coliseum. Our warm up rides were terrific, and it seemed that she remembered being there the last two years riding at the MN State Fair and last year’s Horse Expo. “Piece of cake,” I thought. So I wasn’t worried about how she’d be the next few days.

Friday morning we warmed up relaxed and forward in the practice arena with about 30 other horses. Then our group was called to the Coliseum. As soon as we approached the Coliseum gate, the announcer’s animated voice escalations and expectant crowd clapping panicked Makana. I felt like I was riding on a stiff plank caught by a swirling cyclone. The relaxation, softness and suppleness we had achieved just seconds before entering the Coliseum, quickly vanished. It was all I could do just to stay on. It seemed that nothing had prepared me for “Facing Fear, the Sequel.”

Returning to the barn, discouragement came over me like an ominous thundercloud. I thought about all of the preparation just to be there and the years of dressage study, lessons, clinics, shows, and experiences Makana and I have had together. How could we have been more prepared for this? It was daunting to think of facing four more demonstration rides. I wondered how I could regain control to show Makana’s true talent? Most importantly, how would I manage my anxiety knowing how explosive she had been? Certainly it would be easier to just to pack up and go home.

Saturday afternoon I watched Larry Whitesell and Jennifer Bauer’s gaited dressage demonstration. Larry explained the importance of relaxation, rhythm and balance beginning with the apex (poll). Larry said that if a horse is tense in the poll, it will brace through the whole body which will make bending impossible. I certainly understood what that felt like. Larry also said that a relaxed horse is a happy and safer horse to ride. If the horse is panicked, it’s the rider’s job to help the horse find relaxation and balance. In Larry’s words, “Teach the horse what TO do instead of punishing him for what NOT to do.” A horse’s fight and flight instincts need to be met with relaxation, balance and rhythm, not punishment. Punishing a horse for panicking only makes a horse distrust the rider’s leadership more.

Sunday morning I spent an hour teaching Makana how to relax at the poll from the ground and then while in the saddle. We faced our fear empowered with Larry’s helpful tools of relaxation, rhythm, and balance (and yes, lots and lots of prayer).

Story: Facing Fear>